Monday, July 13, 2009

Where do a strong women go for comfort?

Where do a strong women go for comfort? I tell myself every day that i am some body and ask myself where i want to be just as the wind blows life can take you in so many different directions but you have to be careful some of those winds are strong and can blow you all over the place that can land you in a ruff situation.

That's why you should always try to have your head on right to try and prevent certain things from happening,i know of course you can't prevent everything but you can make yourself aware of what's going on around you.as a confident lady you are use to doing everything,you put up with things that you have no idea why you are putting up with it or you just go by your everyday life fixing and bonding things to try and make it right.a strong women knows how to soothe the soul as a matter of fact she is so use to taking care her self that when a man see it they often feel intimidated by her uniqueness that make a man ego react in such a strange way.

don't get me wrong there are some men out there that loves for a women to be independent that way they don't have to try so hard to take care of her as one man told me that's good for a women to be independent that way he can keep some money in his pocket.Let me say this a person can only break you if you let them that's not true not all women are out for what's in a man pocket some are out for his love and his heart. but if a man wants a good strong confident women to take care of him he has to put out the duckets (money) too.in a relationship both have to give it's not a one way street where one can leech off the other.

A strong women can stand a storm and not afraid to ask for help when it's needed,a strong women doesn't mind crying when her heart has been tested,a strong women knows that she is not a bitch or a whore a strong women is one that is determine to turn her life around and do what others fear doing a strong women knows how the bring up children on her own strong women is someone who lived a rough life but is determine to correct it a strong women want let anyone stand in her way when she is trying to accomplish things

A strong women knows where her comfort zone is and when to put it to use a strong women knows that God is the first stop to your comfort zone go to GOD for prayer and for comfort. like Queen Latifah said very well "I am someone with or without this man i am someone with or without this job,i am someone with or without these tight jeans,I am a strong woman i can survive" so lets all be confident in who we are and always remember to love yourself with all your mind body and soul that the second place you should search for your comfort zone.

A strong women knows how to say no even when her mind wants to say yes a strong women knows how to show love and give love to others a strong women knows that she doesn't have to bow down or be a servant to men or any one else for that matter a strong women knows how to forgive a strong women knows her limits a strong women knows that everyone has the same color blood a strong women knows she has to give her best to get the best well take care !

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