Who is a great role model?

How do you decide
Who is a great role model someone whom you can look up to because of what you see or hear on the tv without knowing what trails they have been through.Can you look into a famous person life when the cameras are off knowing all that they do when they think no one is watching if you could do you think that they will still be someone you would want to have as a role model?Would it matter to you if you can have someone that is not a celebrity be your role model or is it all about the fame of being seen or having hellafied money and a lot of bling-bling.

The talk they talk on tv will sound so good but when off the set it's a whole different thing it's like smoke in the mirror with a lot of celebrities they say one thing while doing another things that's why everything look like it came to them so easy without all the struggles because they don't show you all stress that come with it.


So many of these young kids are taking by that ,that they try to live the life as those celebrity by taking the quick route not going through all the steps that those famous people had to go through because the media don't show all that leaving them clueless to the point where all they can see is that they have money and nice fancy things.

Or should a role model be: someone you know that has been through a lot and you watch their struggles and their progress,is it a single parent doing it all to take care of the family or could it be a two parent household holding it down trying to take care of home and so forth.

Would you want a role model to be someone that you can actually learn from know the hard roads that they had to overcome to get to the place they are at now and that it didn't happen over-night .

I think a role model should be a close family or friend someone you can talk to when you need to talk or when you have concerns and needs, and you know that they are just a phone call away.

A role model should be someone that is willing to help you show you as much as they can to be a great person they should be there ready to give you advice,love and the comfort that you need.

A role model should know your fears that would means as for them being your role model you will be able to talk to them about anything and still feel comfortable with yourself after words they has to be someone you can trust.

A role model is not someone you you can't count on someone that can't be there so ask yourself who do you consider your role model a celebrity should be maybe someone you admire that does great things to help other someone that have a positive light to them but you know that they can't be reach to give you that advice the comfort you need because you can't call on them when you need to talk.

I wrote on this topic because my son had to do a paper on role models and i had to explain to him what one really was to me and of course he picked me and Coby Bryant! Stay blessed all.